it IS NOT just business.

it's just business.

you know, if there are three words I hate when strung together those would be them.

I've heard then used to me and I've heard them used in regards to a future discussion someone else has planned.

When I've heard them addressed to me, I usually find myself holding the short end of the stick. That's ok, it IS business, and sometimes business decisions have to happen. So I'm not whining that i didn't win the quote or the other kid got to the swings first.

Perhaps it comes from what I've found in many business management books. The authors preach an adversarial warlike approach to business.That any action I take to crush my completion is ok, even lying to get inside info, because... wait for it.. it's just business. I don't agree with that principle.

No, what I dislike is the lie that the people using those words tell themselves to justify whatever act underlies those words.

And it is a lie.

When you hide behind the statement its just business, you surrender your morality and forgive yourself the action that on some level you suspect is wrong. The words are a salve to your own actions and a way to excuse your conscience from owning the fact you had to do something not in the best interest of someone else.

And again, these actions happen, it's ok. Just own the fact and make the tough call.

You and whoever is holding that short end of the stick will be better people for it.